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You don't rise from rock bottom all at once

August 29, 2026

You don't rise from rock bottom all at once

People often ask me how to know it's time to start climbing out of rock bottom. Honestly — you won't know. It just gets a little easier to breathe than it did yesterday. Rock bottom isn't a pit with clean edges you can push off from. It's a state where you first stop fighting the fact that you're there. And strangely, that's exactly where the climb begins — not because you became stronger, but because you stopped spending your strength on denial. After that, it's one breath at a time. Not one day — that's too much. One honest breath: notice you're alive, find one small step you can actually take, and take only that one.

I've been through this myself more than once. And I know help doesn't always have to be loud. Sometimes it's enough for someone nearby to simply say, "I hear you" — no ready-made prescriptions. If things are hard for you right now — you are not alone. 🙏

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